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Relaxed
and
went
out
after
a
lot
of
sex
(7)
Relaxed and went out after a lot of sex (7)
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How the clue works
The definition is Relaxed — as in calm, sedated. For the wordplay, a lot of sex gives you SE (most of the word SEX, minus its last letter), and then went out in the romantic sense gives you DATED, so you just stick them together after each other.